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In this episode of Call with Dads, we sit down with Andy Lockwood, a seasoned college advisor with over 24 years of experience helping families tackle the college process. From getting into the right schools to slashing those jaw-dropping tuition bills, Andy’s got the roadmap dads need. We dive into why college isn’t the only path, how to negotiate costs (yes, it’s possible!), and what parents should know to give their kids an edge. With personal stories—like E.A.’s guidance counselor flops and Tom’s shift from degrees to firefighting—plus Andy’s P4 system (Planning, Path, Position, Produce), this chat is packed with practical tips for every dad wondering, “What’s next for my kid?”
Key Highlights:
College Isn’t Mandatory: Andy debunks the myth that everyone needs a degree. Trades can shine too—just ask Tom, a firefighter with two bachelor’s degrees he doesn’t “use.”
Sticker Price? Negotiable: Private colleges discount over 56% on average. Andy shares how to fish in the right pond for need-based and merit-based aid.
Homeschool Advantage: Homeschooled kids often stand out with deep interests and maturity—focus on 9th grade up and ace those SATs/ACTs.
Guidance Counselor Caveats: Don’t rely solely on them—E.A.’s story of being steered to vocational school proves you’ve got to take the reins.
Optimize College: Reverse-engineer class choices by talking to career centers and department heads, not just tour guides.
Today’s Campus Vibe: Still fun (think tailgates), but pricier and with some ideological noise—Andy’s kids say it’s 95% normal life.
Show Article/Summary: https://callwithdads.com/navigating-the-college-maze-insights-from-andy-lockwood-for-dads/
Guest Spotlight: Andy Lockwood
Andy Lockwood runs Lockwood College Prep, blending college admissions savvy with financial aid expertise. A former lawyer turned advisor, he’s helped countless families (and his own four kids) navigate college. Find him at lockwoodcollegeprep.com, check his books like The College Myth on Amazon, or spot him in Netflix’s Operation Varsity Blues (53 seconds of fame!).
Hosts
E.A. Maynard: Homeschool dad, restaurant designer, and skeptic of his own business degree.
https://callwithdads.com/call-with-dads/eric-maynard/
Tom J: Firefighter paramedic with two degrees, homeschooling his younger girls. Follow him on X: @EarnHerRespect.
https://callwithdads.com/call-with-dads/earn-her-respect/
Resources Mentioned
Books by Andy: The Pocket Guide to Surviving Your Guidance Counselor’s Lack of Advice, The College Myth
Watch: Operation Varsity Blues (Netflix)
P4 System: Learn more at lockwoodcollegeprep.com
Connect With Us
Website: CallWithDads.com
Social: Links in the bios—E.A. Maynard, Tom J, and Mr. Pancakes
Past Episodes: Available on our site—replay this one to catch every nugget!
Final Thought: College can be a tool, not a trophy. Andy’s here to help you wield it smartly—share this episode with a dad who needs it!
Have a question for Andy or the hosts? Drop it below or hit us up via the site!
Our Sponsor:
Homessor.com: The Homeschooling Marketplace
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In this engaging episode, we delve into the transformative journey of Brandon Moore, a father who redefines his role through the wisdom of antique books. After overcoming cancer and the initial prognosis of infertility, Brandon Moore shares how he and his son bonded over literature that emphasized duty and responsibility in fatherhood. We explore how he shifted from a militant to a collaborative parenting style, the impact of habit changes like curbing profanity, and the importance of fathers reclaiming their roles in education and spiritual guidance. Moore also discusses the modern challenges of comfort addiction and technology, advocating for a balanced approach to teaching children about life’s real rewards over temporary pleasures. This episode is a must-listen for fathers seeking inspiration to grow with their children in today’s complex world.
Show Article/Summary: https://callwithdads.com/reviving-fatherhood-insights-from-brandon-moores-journey/
Hosts:
E.A. Maynard: https://callwithdads.com/call-with-dads/eric-maynard/
Tom(Earn Her Respect): https://callwithdads.com/call-with-dads/earn-her-respect/
Mr. Pancakes: https://callwithdads.com/call-with-dads/mr-pancake/
Guest Host:
Brandon Moore:
Twitter/X: https://x.com/PonderingMoore
Our Sponsor:
Homessor.com: The Homeschooling Marketplace
Searching for high-quality homeschooling courses crafted by experienced homeschoolers? Look no further than Homessor.com — the premier homeschooling marketplace where the community itself develops and shares courses tailored specifically for homeschoolers. Whether you’re just starting or a seasoned pro, Homessor offers flexible, community-driven courses that can adapt to your family’s unique educational needs. Empower your homeschool journey with resources created by homeschoolers, for homeschoolers. Visit Homessor.com today to discover the difference of community-led learning.
In this discussion, Mista Yu explores his journey as a stepfather to three daughters, sharing insights on navigating the complexities of non-biological fatherhood. He discusses his instant transition into family life after marrying in 1996, the importance of authenticity in earning respect, and the challenges of societal perceptions of stepfathers. Mista Yu also opens up about overcoming personal trust issues, the significance of showing love for the children’s mother, and his commitment to family stability. The conversation extends to his initiative, aimed at teaching life skills and traditional values to the next generation, alongside discussions with fellow fathers Mr. Pancakes and Tom J on the impact of parental unity.
Show Article/Summary: callwithdads.com/insights-from-a-stepfathers-journey/
Hosts:
E.A. Maynard: https://callwithdads.com/call-with-dads/eric-maynard/
Tom(Earn Her Respect): https://callwithdads.com/call-with-dads/earn-her-respect/
Mr. Pancakes: https://callwithdads.com/call-with-dads/mr-pancake/
Guest Host:
Mista Yu:
YouTube: www.youtube.com/@Theycallmemistayu
Twitter/X: twitter.com/theycallmemryu
Instagram: instagram.com/theycallmemistayu
Facebook: facebook.com/theycallmemistayu
Our Sponsor:
Homessor.com: The Homeschooling Marketplace
Searching for high-quality homeschooling courses crafted by experienced homeschoolers? Look no further than Homessor.com — the premier homeschooling marketplace where the community itself develops and shares courses tailored specifically for homeschoolers. Whether you’re just starting or a seasoned pro, Homessor offers flexible, community-driven courses that can adapt to your family’s unique educational needs. Empower your homeschool journey with resources created by homeschoolers, for homeschoolers. Visit Homessor.com today to discover the difference of community-led learning.
In this episode, we explore the journey of Daniel Dluzneski, a former Secret Service agent with 24 years of experience, who has transitioned into a school safety manager in Florida. Daniel Dluzneski discusses his mission to improve school safety protocols… Continue Reading →
In the latest episode, Alec from Fatherhood Reforged interviews with E.A. Maynard about his innovative father-son guided journal, designed for a 16-week course exploring masculinity. The curriculum aims to foster deeper connections between fathers and sons while addressing societal misconceptions surrounding manhood. Each week features a reading passage followed by reflective writing tasks and real-world activities focused on key themes like leadership, brotherhood, and emotional strength. Maynard emphasizes the importance of fathers being engaged in their sons’ lives, regardless of their educational choices, and invites feedback to enhance the dialogue on masculinity and parenting. The journal will be available as a book on Amazon and as a PDF on Ko-fi, making it accessible for all families interested in nurturing healthy masculinity.
Show Article/Summary: https://callwithdads.com/the-start-of-raising-dragon-slayers/
Hosts:
E.A. Maynard: https://callwithdads.com/call-with-dads/eric-maynard/
Tom(Earn Her Respect): https://callwithdads.com/call-with-dads/earn-her-respect/
Mr. Pancakes: https://callwithdads.com/call-with-dads/mr-pancake/
Guest Host:
Alec Griffiths (Fathers Reforged): https://x.com/fathersreforged
Raising Dragon Slayers: https://homessor.com/directory-homeschoolin/listing/raising-dragon-slayers-curriculum-community-2/
Our Sponsor:
Homessor.com: The Homeschooling Marketplace
Searching for high-quality homeschooling courses crafted by experienced homeschoolers? Look no further than Homessor.com — the premier homeschooling marketplace where the community itself develops and shares courses tailored specifically for homeschoolers. Whether you’re just starting or a seasoned pro, Homessor offers flexible, community-driven courses that can adapt to your family’s unique educational needs. Empower your homeschool journey with resources created by homeschoolers, for homeschoolers. Visit Homessor.com today to discover the difference of community-led learning.
In Reflections on New Years Resolutions and Fatherhood, E. a. Maynard shares valuable insights on the challenges and responsibilities of fatherhood. He emphasizes the importance of continuous self-improvement and daily reflection on parenting rather than relying on traditional New Year resolutions. E.a. Maynard encourages fathers to build supportive communities for sharing resources and experiences, which can greatly enhance their parenting journey. He also highlights impactful conversations with guests on various parenting topics, including child safety and the unique challenges of parenting children with special needs. The overall message advocates for active engagement in personal growth as a father to build a stronger family unit.
Show Article/Summary: None this time
Hosts:
E.A. Maynard: https://callwithdads.com/call-with-dads/eric-maynard/
Tom(Earn Her Respect): https://callwithdads.com/call-with-dads/earn-her-respect/
Mr. Pancakes: https://callwithdads.com/call-with-dads/mr-pancake/
Our Sponsor:
Homessor.com: The Homeschooling Marketplace
Searching for high-quality homeschooling courses crafted by experienced homeschoolers? Look no further than Homessor.com — the premier homeschooling marketplace where the community itself develops and shares courses tailored specifically for homeschoolers. Whether you’re just starting or a seasoned pro, Homessor offers flexible, community-driven courses that can adapt to your family’s unique educational needs. Empower your homeschool journey with resources created by homeschoolers, for homeschoolers. Visit Homessor.com today to discover the difference of community-led learning.
If you’re a father seeking insights into navigating the complexities of family values and personal identity, consider tuning into our podcast discussion where E. A. Maynard shares his journey of reconciling the differing value systems of biological and step-parents. He highlights the critical impact that values—over mere financial wealth—can have on future generations, emphasizing the importance of imparting moral and ethical lessons to children. This episode delves into the effective strategies for open communication within marriages, the need for tailored approaches in parenting based on children’s unique personalities, and the necessity of instilling resilience and integrity in kids. By reflecting on his own experiences, Maynard provides listeners with valuable perspectives on fostering a nurturing family environment that prioritizes strong values, ultimately shaping a legacy that transcends material wealth. Join us for an engaging conversation that will equip you with the tools and insights to make a meaningful impact as a father.
Show Article/Summary: https://callwithdads.com/navigating-family-values-and-personal-identity/
Hosts:
E.A. Maynard: https://callwithdads.com/call-with-dads/eric-maynard/
Tom(Earn Her Respect): https://callwithdads.com/call-with-dads/earn-her-respect/
Our Sponsor:
Homessor.com: The Homeschooling Marketplace
Searching for high-quality homeschooling courses crafted by experienced homeschoolers? Look no further than Homessor.com — the premier homeschooling marketplace where the community itself develops and shares courses tailored specifically for homeschoolers. Whether you’re just starting or a seasoned pro, Homessor offers flexible, community-driven courses that can adapt to your family’s unique educational needs. Empower your homeschool journey with resources created by homeschoolers, for homeschoolers. Visit Homessor.com today to discover the difference of community-led learning.
In the latest episode of the Call with Dads Podcast, E. A. Maynard and Tom engages with John Finch, author of “The Father Effect,” exploring the deep-rooted impact of father wounds stemming from unresolved issues between fathers and sons. Finch shares his personal experience of losing his father to suicide at age 11 and how this loss influenced his understanding of paternal relationships. The discussion emphasizes the necessity of forgiveness—both for one’s father and oneself—and the importance of open communication in fostering healthy father-child dynamics. The conversation lead into several ways men can look to find answers to healing their father wound. This is a story and discussion not to be missed.
Show Article/Summary: https://callwithdads.com/the-father-effect-understanding-father-wounds-and-their-impact/
Hosts:
E.A. Maynard: https://callwithdads.com/call-with-dads/eric-maynard/
Tom(Earn Her Respect): https://callwithdads.com/call-with-dads/earn-her-respect/
Guest:
John Finch: https://thefathereffect.com/
Our Sponsor:
Homessor.com: The Homeschooling Marketplace
Searching for high-quality homeschooling courses crafted by experienced homeschoolers? Look no further than Homessor.com — the premier homeschooling marketplace where the community itself develops and shares courses tailored specifically for homeschoolers. Whether you’re just starting or a seasoned pro, Homessor offers flexible, community-driven courses that can adapt to your family’s unique educational needs. Empower your homeschool journey with resources created by homeschoolers, for homeschoolers. Visit Homessor.com today to discover the difference of community-led learning.
In this conversation, the significance of family traditions and their evolution was highlighted, especially in the context of fatherhood. E.a. Maynard and Tom reflected on their own familial experiences, recognizing that while traditions can create strong bonds, they may also… Continue Reading →
In this episode of Call With Dads, the hosts dive into the vital roles fathers play in their children’s linguistic and educational development. They discuss the importance of teaching kids the implications of language and the parental responsibility to guide them away from inappropriate content, especially in media. The conversation also explores the balance of technology in education, emphasizing its potential to create engaging learning experiences while cautioning against entertainment overload. Furthermore, they evaluate the benefits of homeschooling as a personalized educational approach, highlighting opportunities for teaching practical skills and critical thinking over traditional rote learning. The episode aims to empower fathers to take an active role in shaping their children’s learning experiences and language use, fostering environments ripe for growth and real-world readiness.
Show Article/Summary: https://callwithdads.com/teaching-kids-the-right-way-a-discussion-on-parenting-and-language/
Hosts:
E.A. Maynard: https://callwithdads.com/call-with-dads/eric-maynard/
Mr. Pancake: https://callwithdads.com/call-with-dads/mr-pancake/
Our Sponsor:
Homessor: The Homeschooling Marketplace
Searching for high-quality homeschooling courses crafted by experienced homeschoolers? Look no further than Homessor.com — the premier homeschooling marketplace where the community itself develops and shares courses tailored specifically for homeschoolers. Whether you’re just starting or a seasoned pro, Homessor offers flexible, community-driven courses that can adapt to your family’s unique educational needs. Empower your homeschool journey with resources created by homeschoolers, for homeschoolers. Visit Homessor.com today to discover the difference of community-led learning.